Why I’m Thankful. Time to Count My Blessings
"When I started counting my blessings, my whole life turned around". Willie Nelson said that. I read it somewhere earlier this week and it made me think. I wondered what had changed for Willie when he counted of his blessings... and what had brought him to that point in his life.
I don't think I've ever really "counted my blessings". It always seemed like just a cliche expression. I've realized I was pretty lucky with my draw in life, but I never dwelled too much on it or did an inventory of all in-stock blessings. But if Willie Nelson could do it, so can I. I'm not usually this competitive with Willie, I don't know what's gotten in to me.
Health: I've been lucky to have been in fairly good health my entire life. That means more to me as I get older and lose that youthful feeling of invincibility. I've always read the obituary section of the newspaper. Sometimes it's the most interesting section of the paper- some fascinating stories. Lately I'm noticing many people my age and younger are dying. I'm lucky I'm not one of them.
Job: In a time when many people can't find any job, I do the only job I've ever had any real interest in doing and it's what I've done my entire working life. I decided I wanted to be on the radio in my sophomore year in high school and I never changed my mind. Don't get me wrong. I thought about it a couple of times, I just couldn't think of anything better to do. Being on the radio is a tough and surprisingly unglamorous job. I spent a good deal of my life moving around the country to find a better radio job and that meant leaving many people and things behind along the way. I miss some of those people but, overall, I wouldn't change a thing.
Home: I have a house at the beach, in a nice neighborhood, in the greatest country on the planet. How many people can say that?
Family: My dad is still going strong at 87 years-old and I have two sisters and many extended family members who I like to spend time with, but don't get much of a chance.
Wife: My wife Beth is beautiful, talented, compassionate, and very patient. Patience is important when you're dealing with me. I love her and she loves me and we are very happy together.
Kids: Eileen and Bridget are my 5 year-old identical twin daughters. They are healthy, smart, beautiful and very loud. They have been my life's biggest surprise. After years as a bachelor, I am now getting to know family life and finding I have a lot to learn! It gets back to that patience thing I mentioned. But the unadulterated love I feel for these two girls is amazing. Beth & I went to their Kindergarten Thanksgiving play the other day and as I watched them up on stage saying how thankful they were for their family, in their cute little 5 year-old voices, my heart just melted. It doesn't get any luckier than that.
That's not bad for a quick inventory of my blessing. Thanks for the idea, Willie Nelson.